The American people have been given a lovely Christmas present this morning. The U.S. Senate has voted to pass the health insurance reform measure, which will (eventually) make sure no one has to die from lack of health insurance or go broke or lose their home because someone in the family got sick. Thank you, senators, and God bless us, every one!
Archive for the ‘Gratitude’ Category
A healthier Christmas Eve
Thursday, December 24th, 2009Happy Thanksgiving
Thursday, November 26th, 2009
Thanksgiving greetings!
May your stuffing be tasty.
May your turkey be plump.
May your potatoes and gravy have nary a lump.
May your pies take the prize.
May your Thanksgiving dinner stay off of your thighs!
Happy Thanksgiving to all!
Happy birthday, Gandhi
Friday, October 2nd, 2009
Happy birthday today to Mahatma Gandhi, born this day in 1869. I am grateful that the world had him as a mentor for nonviolent protest.
Let’s celebrate by not hating anybody for a day. Anybody. Anywhere. For any reason.
Women religious
Tuesday, September 29th, 2009National Catholic Reporter Online has begun an initiative “to draw attention to the remarkable work of women religious around the globe and comes at a time our church is growing and changing in Africa, Asia and Latin America. In instance after instance, women religious are part of this growth.” Click the link above to sign up for e-mail alerts and to find out more about this program.
Happy birthday to Shine A Light!
Friday, September 18th, 2009
My Shine A Light blog has now been active for a whole year. So, I’m saying Happy Birthday to it, and to myself!
I want to thank everyone who follows the blog. Your support throughout the year — especially this most difficult year — has meant a great deal to me.
Please don’t hesitate to add comments with your suggestions for improvement.
— Much love.
Thank you, Mary Travers
Thursday, September 17th, 2009
The beloved Mary Travers of the singing group Peter, Paul and Mary has died. I remember her with much love. We went to see her in concert several times, particularly at Blossom Music Center, and the group came to Kent State University often for the annual May 4 memorial ceremonies to honor the students who were killed and wounded in 1970. When I used to sing, her songs were always part of my repertoire, and this one is probably my particular favorite of hers. In a televised concert (I think it was “Peter, Paul and Mommy Too”), she sang it to her granddaughter.
For Baby (For Bobbie)
music and lyrics by John Denver
I’ll walk in the rain by your side,
I’ll cling to the warmth of your tiny hand.
I’ll do anything to help you understand,
I’ll love you more than anybody can.
And the wind will whisper your name to me.
Little birds will sing along in time.
The leaves will bow down when you walk by,
And morning bells will chime.
I’ll be there when you’re feelin’ down,
To kiss away the tears if you cry.
I’ll share with you all the happiness I’ve found;
A reflection of the love in your eyes.
And I’ll sing you the songs of a rainbow;
Whisper of the joy that is mine.
The leaves will bow down when you walk by,
And morning bells will chime.
A little encouragement
Wednesday, September 2nd, 2009Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs.
His bed was next to the room’s only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back.
The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation…
Every afternoon, when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.
The man in the other bed began to live for those moments when his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.
The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake, said the man by the window. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amid flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance…
As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene.
One warm afternoon, the man by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other man could not hear the band, he could see it in his mind’s eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words.
Days, weeks, and months passed.
One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away.
As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch and, after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.
Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed.
It faced a blank wall.
The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window. The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall.
She said, “Perhaps he just wanted to give you a little encouragement.”
(Story from anonymous e-mail sources.)
Happy birthday, Paulo Coelho!
Monday, August 24th, 2009
As a present to us all on his birthday, author Paulo Coelho has announced on Twitter that he is offering free downloads of some of his writings.
These are available only on the Internet.
Click here for the Web page. Find him on Twitter at @PauloCoelho.
Happy birthday, Paulo!
MJ
Monday, June 29th, 2009
Be careful what you blog.
I have to apologize here to all the Michael Jackson fans for my saying last week that I wasn’t really a fan. I can only chalk it up to my being tired. But I must have seemed frumpy and very arrogant indeed.
All weekend I’ve listened to his singing and watched videos of his dancing, and I remember how much I enjoyed his musical talents. I still can’t take my eyes off him when I see him dancing!
He surely was a musical genius — a natural talent who worked very hard, according to all who knew him. And one of the best dancers the world has ever known. A man made of mercury, fluid and graceful and shining, he bent and blended gender, race, age, dance genres and musical styles. I think it’s pretty obvious that Michael’s innovations changed pop music — and dance — forever.

If, indeed, his death is from a combination of things — pills, anorexia, exhaustion — it will be understandable. He seemed to have a self-loathing and self-destructive streak. Besides that, he saw what happened when Elvis got older and the weight started to accumulate on his body: People made fun of him — something Michael couldn’t abide. So if Michael saw a pound or two creeping onto his frame, he would be horrified and instantly go into starvation mode.
Like Elvis, he was surely surrounded by enabling sycophants, some probably in the form of doctors.
A little boy who never had a childhood, never grew up, and never found a real life partner, he saw himself as Peter Pan. “I AM Peter Pan,” he told Martin Bashir. “I’m Peter Pan in my heart.”
All this made me think he could never really hurt a(nother) child, so for a long time I defended him against the scurrilous and, I must say, grotesque child molestation charges against him. I finally realized I didn’t know him, so I could neither defend nor attack him, so I gave up.
I don’t know who will get custody of his children, but let me just say that I don’t want Joe Jackson to raise them. According to Michael’s own words, Joe was a horrible abuser, beating and humiliating his own children whenever he could.

My condolences to his family, his friends and his fans. And to myself, because I’ll miss watching those feet move, and hearing that crystal clear voice. (Just try buying one of his CDs online today.)
I am grateful we had him as long as we did.
(Updated 6/30/09)
‘Pay attention’
Wednesday, June 10th, 2009
“People come and go. The scene shifts. Time runs by, runs out. Maybe it is all utterly meaningless. Maybe it is all unutterably meaningful. If you want to known which, pay attention: The unexpected sound of your name on somebody’s lips. The good dream. The odd coincidence. … Pay attention. As a summation of all that I have had to say as a writer, I would settle for that. And as a talisman or motto for that journey in search of a homeland, which is what faith is, I would settle for that too.”
— from Secrets in the Dark: A Life in Sermons by Frederick Buechner
Gracias a la vida
Friday, May 15th, 2009Gracias a la vida que me la dado tanto.
(Thanks be to life which has given me so much.)
— familiar Spanish saying quoted in EAST OF THE SUN by Julia Gregson
Happy Earth Day!
Wednesday, April 22nd, 2009
“Find new, creative ways to get in touch with the earth. Revel in the infinite variety of colors around you. Listen to the birds — they are God’s messengers. Walk whenever you can. Enjoy the texture of grass and leaves. Grow flowers or plant trees and discover once again that “the earth is the Lord’s and the fullness thereof.” (Psalms 24:1).”
— Quote from “Freedom of Simplicity:
Finding Harmony in a Complex World” by Richard J. Foster
Adoration
Tuesday, April 21st, 2009

“Perhaps the most striking form of worship we find on retreat is adoration. In times of silence and quiet we enter into the blazing presence of God. We are caught up into intimacy with him. While walking outdoors, we are conscious of the Lord’s presence in the world he lovingly created. We see sunlight reflected on waters and praise him. We are swept up in the language of the Psalms: fields, trees, all living things are worshiping and praising him.”
— Quote from
Wilderness Time: A Guide for Spiritual Retreat
by Emilie Griffin
My Mama
Thursday, April 9th, 2009
My mother, Elta, died 30 years ago today. I find this time span hard to believe, but some of you will understand that time does not diminish this loss.
When she died, my father asked me to write something special for her funeral service. I stayed up all night and wrenched the poem below from my being. When I showed it to Dad, he then asked me to read it aloud at the service. I knew that I couldn’t do it without breaking down. So my brother Tom volunteered to read it aloud for me.
I watched Tom practice and practice, walking outside for hours — not memorizing the poem, but just reading it over and over until he could do it without crying. And at the funeral, he did an amazing job. I will be eternally grateful to him for giving me this gift.
Here’s the poem I wrote for Mama:
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…………………………Mama
I dreamed there came a woman bearing flowers,
…..…..and she gave me life,
…..teaching me to laugh at the sky,
…..and to sing to the trees
…..…..as we walked among the flowers,
…..while she told me her secrets
…..and I told her mine.
And we held each other up like mirrors . . .
…..not duplicate images,
…..but alike enough to recognize one in the other.
I would watch her grow plants —
…………………………tenderly —
…..as if they were children,
…..each a symbol of her faith.
She who gave me life adored me,
…..…..as I adored her,
…..and gave of herself openly,
…..not perfectly, but who could help but love her more?
She made me strong and independent,
…..and taught me freedom —
…..and that “what is right” is more important
…..than “what is easy.”
And in the dream I awoke, and she was gone.
…..But part of myself had gone with her,
…..and something of the joy of her
…..…..had remained in me,
…..…..to see me through forever.
And now she watches me —
…………………………softly —
…..humming a favorite song and smiling peacefully,
…..tending the gardens of heaven,
…………………………where a new flower blooms.
…………………………………….— Mary Louise
Copyright 1979, 2009 Mary Louise Ruehr
Joy increases
Wednesday, April 8th, 2009Thinking of Marci
Friday, March 20th, 2009
We here at the Record-Courier lost one of our own yesterday when Marci Piltz died in a horrific house fire.
We’re like a little family here in the newsroom, and losing one of our co-workers has put us in a daze.
And Marci — so much fun, so full of life — this is a real loss. It’s hard to believe and hard to process.
Marci was a talented writer, and she was the devoted mother of two beautiful boys. Coming into the office this morning and seeing her empty desk, with the photos of her boys all around her computer, was almost a physical blow.
Well-wishers have been calling today and stopping by to express their sympathy or to grieve with us, and their kind thoughts and prayers are much appreciated.
It’s a sad day.
Spring
Friday, March 6th, 2009
Spring is nature’s way of saying,
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“Let’s party!”
— Robin Williams ………..
March 4th; celebrate Grammar Day
Thursday, March 5th, 2009March 4th has been declared to be National Grammar Day. It’s also the only day that, when spoken aloud, is a complete sentence. (March forth!)
Too bad I didn’t know about the holiday yesterday. I could have stayed home or had cake or something. Still, it’s nice to know somebody still cares about writing with clarity. It’s like seeing a light in a storm on a dark night. OK, well, maybe not that powerful, but it’s nice.
‘Every person is blessed’
Thursday, February 19th, 2009“Every person is blessed with special talents. Some people are good listeners, others possess the capacity to make beautiful or durable things with their hands, others have an eye for decorating a room. Your talent is whatever makes you excited, fulfilled, and content. The key thing is to find your God-given talent and then put it to work in the world.”
Update: Too much snow
Friday, January 30th, 2009
My wonderful brother and sister-in-law let me wait at their house yesterday afternoon and fed me dinner, and then about 7:30 my wonderful cousin John Kline brought his all-powerful snow plow to dig out the glacier that was our driveway. Even he had trouble driving down that ice-encrusted mess. But I didn’t have to walk down it last night! Hurray!
Understand, though, that even plowed, it’s no cakewalk driving on that thing. The car is NOT happy. Spring cannot come soon enough for us at Playfair Cottage!

Too much snow
Thursday, January 29th, 2009
OK. So I left for work yesterday morning, and the bottom of the car scraped along the top of the snow in the driveway, and the roads were about the worst I’ve ever seen, but I put the CR-V in first gear (D1) and drove very slowly, and managed to get to work through the snow and freezing rain and sleet, without going off the road or slamming into something. (Thank you, Lord.) I noticed on the way out that the snow plow had taken out my brother Dave’s mailbox next door. Nice.
So, after a long day at work, after the snow had finally stopped falling, I drove home in low gear (D2), and I noticed that the snow plow had now taken out my own mailbox. Nice. And then I tried to drive down my driveway. No good. It wasn’t the tires; the car was too low, and the snow was too high.
So I got out the shovel I keep in the car (smart me) and dug out the tires and whatever I could reach under the car, and I backed it up and finally got the car maneuvered to my brother’s house, where I parked the car and got his and Rene’s permission to keep it there overnight. And I headed home — on foot. More than 1/5 of a mile through snow at least a foot deep, with at least one layer of ice in it. Nice.
So, I got up this morning and got dressed and had to re-walk the long driveway through the knee-deep snow because we couldn’t get the driveway plowed yet. And as of this afternoon, it still hasn’t been plowed, because all the plows are so busy. So I’m not sure what will happen when I try to get home. I am tired.
But you know what? I’m grateful the heavy snow and ice didn’t take out the electrical power. I’m grateful I didn’t fall down. I’m grateful I was able to get the car to work and back. I’m grateful I’m healthy, so I had the strength for the long, difficult walks. I’m grateful that I have high boots. I’m grateful for my brother next door. I’m grateful that there are people with plows.
Life is good. But there’s still too much snow.
A new day, a new country, a new world
Tuesday, January 20th, 2009
Barack Obama, 44th President of the United States
Happy Birthday, Martin Luther King Jr.
Monday, January 19th, 2009
Today we celebrate the birthday of Martin Luther King Jr. (which is really Jan. 15). I’d like to repeat part of his “I Have a Dream” speech:
… I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: “We hold these truths to be self-evident: that all men are created equal.”
I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave owners will be able to sit down together at a table of brotherhood.
I have a dream that one day even the state of Mississippi, a desert state, sweltering with the heat of injustice and oppression, will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice.
I have a dream that my four children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.
I have a dream today.
… This will be the day when all of God’s children will be able to sing with a new meaning, “My country, ’tis of thee, sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing. Land where my fathers died, land of the pilgrim’s pride, from every mountainside, let freedom ring.”
And if America is to be a great nation this must become true. So let freedom ring from the prodigious hilltops of New Hampshire. Let freedom ring from the mighty mountains of New York. Let freedom ring from the heightening Alleghenies of Pennsylvania!
Let freedom ring from the snowcapped Rockies of Colorado!
… Let freedom ring from every hill and every molehill of Mississippi. From every mountainside, let freedom ring.
When we let freedom ring, when we let it ring from every village and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God’s children, black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual, “Free at last! free at last! thank God Almighty, we are free at last!”
Tomorrow, much of that dream will come true.
‘Rise up and be thankful’
Friday, January 16th, 2009
“Let us rise up and be thankful, for if we didn’t learn a lot today, at least we learned a little, and if we didn’t learn a little, at least we didn’t get sick, and if we got sick, at least we didn’t die; so, let us all be thankful.”
—The Buddha
The Word
Monday, December 29th, 2008
“We are surrounded by the Word of God. It permeates us like the air we breathe. It challenges us to walk with discerning hearts in the company of God.”
— from The Song of the Seed:
The Monastic Way of Tending the Soul
by Macrina Wiederkehr
Please keep in mind that other translations for “Word,” or “logos” in Greek, include “promise,” “light,” “truth,” “energy,” and “thought.” Substitute any of those, and say the quote again. Aah. — M.L.R.
No loss for words
Friday, December 5th, 2008
Today’s Record-Courier carries this photo by Lisa Scalfaro. It’s of Jacob Neely, a third-grader at Southeast Intermediate School, who’s looking at the new dictionary he received from the Ravenna Rotary Club, which gave each third-grader a free dictionary this week.
What a great program!
Or maybe I’m just jealous.
Where’s my new dictionary?!
Baby’s first book!
Thursday, December 4th, 2008
Today’s Record-Courier has a story about Target Corporation’s recent grant to the Robinson Memorial Hospital Foundation in support of the Robinson Reads program.
The grant promotes child literacy, and, because of it, all newborns will receive their first book. How exciting! Thank you, Target.
Sky blue pink
Wednesday, December 3rd, 2008OK. So I was driving in to work this morning and the sunrise was SOOOO beautiful that I actually applauded. “Well done!” I said to the sky. There it was — my favorite color combination — sky blue and pink — not unlike a Maxfield Parrish print. (This is NOT a photo of the phenomenon; who has a camera when you need one?) It was a wonderful way to start the day.
Here’s how you replicate it: You take the sky blue crayon from your Crayola Big Box, and draw horizontal streaks across a sheet of white paper. Then you take the pink, or fuchsia if you have it, and fill in wherever the blue didn’t go. Voilà! Sky blue pink. But of course, you have to fill the sky with it. And the pink is really much more glow-y kind of. But still — you’ll feel like applauding. Trust me.
Freedom from Want
Thursday, November 27th, 2008
For all these things and more, we are truly thankful.
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At right: Norman Rockwell’s “Freedom from Want”
My Daily Affirmation (Prayer)
Thursday, November 20th, 2008
MY DAILY AFFIRMATION (PRAYER)
“I am grateful (Thank you) for the challenge of this beautiful new day.
I am grateful (Thank you) for the lessons
that were given to me (that you gave to me) yesterday.
I will (Please let me) learn from them and move on to better things.
I choose to be (Help me to be) an instrument of love and joy and to open myself to all the good around me.
I will (Help me to) do something today to make my life better,
something to make someone else’s life better,
and something to make the world better.”
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To use as an affirmation, say the words in green and black;
to use as a prayer, say the words in blue (in parentheses) and black.
It works best in the morning.
I like to say it as I’m getting breakfast ready, or starting up the car to go to work.

